The party was a huge success! Nearly 30 people attended! Because of different arrival/departure times, there was never more than 19 people in the hotel room at any given time. That said, the party was PACKED. It was standing room only for the peak hours. I may have to look for a larger hotel!


Photo Tour

NOTE: For privacy reasons, no pictures/videos are permitted during the party. These photos are from before or after the party. Use your imagination to fill it up with people.

Party on a Trolly

Everything I need for the party fits in a few boxes.

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Welcome Area

Welcome to the party! When you arrive you’ll be asked to pick a color wristband. Red (don’t approach), yellow (ask first), and green (please ask! I’m here to play!)

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Before…

Here are some “before” shots of the hotel room.

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…after:

And this is what it looks like after it is set up!

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The straight room

One room was designated as being “straight”. Here is a shot of the screen and some of the posters on the wall.

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Poster

The hotel had this poster up. It really fit with the theme! LOL

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Feedback Survey Results!

Yes, I really do a “post-party satisfaction survey” after the party. The comments help me make each party better than the last.

A record number of people filled out the survey this time. Thanks, folks! I appreciate the feedback! (I especially look forward to any negative comments… they help me improve future parties!)

On the “1 to 5 stars” rating, the party got 4.5 stars!

  • 60% - 5 stars
  • 30% - 4 stars
  • 10% - 3 stars
  • 0% - 2 stars
  • 0% - 1 stars

Average: 4.5 stars! (same as last party)

“What did you LIKE about the PARTY?”

  • “The variety of the videos was really nice, I like stuff I didn’t think I would like.”
  • “THE PEOPLE, everyone was nice even if they didn’t talk too much. The pizza WAS SO GOOD I had to Google the place before I left”
  • “Loved being everyone’s plaything porn bunny!!”
  • “Communication, variety of porn, Friendly Host, plenty of lotion and lube all around.”
  • “Very sexy, good vibe, open and inviting atmosphere”
  • “Hard cocks and stroking everywhere! The clarity around the type of interactions people want and everyone respecting that is very good. Excellent diversity among attendees. Feeling totally welcomed and respected as the only female-bodied person was wonderful.”
  • “Everyone was friendly and the porn was great”
  • “Large attendance”
  • “The porn was great, the people were very respectful and open minded and fun, and the vibes were spectacular. You were also a great host and organizer, couldn’t have asked for a better one.”
  • “Diversity of people I got to play with and types of play I got engaged in.”
  • “Such a good overall vibe. People were friendly and respectful. Impressive with so many horny guys!”
  • “Chill, no pressure, and a whole room fool of stroking.”
  • “The turnout was good and there was a nice selection of porn scenes.”
  • “The diversity and the chill vibe.”
  • “It was very comforting with being a first timer and everyone made you feel welcomed”
  • “Good turnout, didn’t play with others like usual but still a good time”

This was the first time I got such a compliment about the food. FYI: It was from this place .

Conclusion: Folks had a great time!

What did you NOT LIKE about the party?

  • A few people said “Nothing!”
  • A few people mentioned the limited seating space.
  • There were some comments about the room being too hot (please, folks! Let me know next time!)

Some examples:

  • “Poor ventilation. Too many bodies radiating heat made the air hot and heavy. It would be good to open the windows from time to time if that’s an option.”
    • Host’s reply: Thank you for pointing that out. I’ll try to pay more attention to temperature in the future. Please feel free to bring this up during the party so I can fix it ASAP.
  • “At first I was not crazy about having a straight porn only room. I still wonder what that achieves. In practicality though it turned out ok because it was a space where you could relax a bit more and the intensity of the porn was dialed back quite a bit which was a welcome break for me.”
    • Host’s reply: Yeah, people keep asking for a straight room but it never seems to fill. I’d appreciate more feedback about this.
  • “Energy seemed low at points, porn choice was not my taste.”
    • Host’s reply: Sorry you didn’t enjoy the porn. Please DM me about that. What would you have liked to see?
  • “Lots of men and trans, would like to see more women attend future parties.”
    • Host’s reply: I can’t say it any better than this: If you’re looking for pussy, you’re at the wrong party. Cis women are invited but I promote the party mostly to men, trans women, sissies and wannabes.
  • “I would have liked a little more gay or bi porn. Also, I totally forgot about the blue and pink bands, which came back to bite me–Love sucking and at least one of the guys next to me had on a blue band (My bad, really…)”
    • Host’s reply: Please feel free to ask to add or change wristbands during the party. I’m glad to accommodate!
  • “It’s my own fault but I picked colors in hope that people would ask me to suck them off but instead I had to ask to suck! Idk why I thought people asking me would be hot lol”
    • Host’s reply: Thank you for the honest feedback. Yes, people are shy and asking gets more play than waiting to be asked. Of course, asking can be nerve-racking, but consider this party a safe place to practice asking!

Conclusion: The room was a bit small and the room temperature got hot. Good things for me to keep in mind for the next party!

Safety and privacy

  • (15 responses) I felt safe/comfortable the entire time
  • (8 responses) The host did things that made me feel safe/comfortable
  • (4 responses) I was nervous at first but I felt safe/comfortable eventually
  • (4 responses) I was nervous at first but I felt safe/comfortable soon after I arrived
  • (0 responses) I never felt safe/comfortable
  • (0 responses) The host made me feel unsafe or uncomfortable
  • (0 responses) An attendee acted badly and the host didn’t take action

Conclusion: Nobody selected any of the negative options (the last 3) and most people felt safe the entire time. YAY!

Favorite memory from the party?

  • “Having cum on my face for the first time in years”
  • “Right at the end when three or four guys were simultaneously sucking on my titties and rubbing me all over while I stood and strokeeeddd”
  • “Someone came to me and made eye contact with me… asked whether they could suck me and I said yes. They did a really good job. Wish I could have joined you all earlier in the evening.”
  • “Guy with the nicest cock at the party getting sucked off by an expert fellatist. So hot!”
  • “Finally feeling thoroughly gooned and cumming while sitting right in front of the main porn screens and realizing that [the host] has manifested my ultimate fantasy world that I can just walk into!”
  • “getting edged on the couch by [a trans woman] while someone else was getting sucked off”
  • “Cumming in a cup and then eating it with a cookie after sucking on a cock I was thinking about for hours.”
  • “Sensual interaction with one wonderful attendee, while immersed in porn on the screen (withholding the details for privacy).”
  • “Two guys giving a transwoman a lot of attention”
  • “Standing in the middle of the room and looking at everyone stroke!”
  • “Using the fleshlight.”
  • “Being sandwiched between two hot cocks stroking my cock…”
  • “Giving someone blowjob and trying a fleshlight for the first time.”
  • “Seeing that fine lady with that big booty walking around . Lot of nice cocks too.”

Conclusion: People that filled out the survey had a great time!

How was the porn?

There was a mix of responses.

The positive: Most people liked it, and felt over-stimulated (in a good way).

The negatives: There was a mix of “too tame” and “too hardcore” comments; too much hypno and not enough hypno. Not sure how to accommodate people who want more hardcore or less hardcore. Maybe we should have a special “hardcore hour” or “hypno hour”.

One person said he didn’t realize he could make requests. I’ll be more clear at future parties.

One well-written note commented about the interracial porn being racist in places. I agree and I apologize. I didn’t realize the IR stream I picked would be so racist. I won’t use that stream in the future and will preview new streams before I use them.

One person wrote, “I really like that “Good Boy” video — the audio more than the visuals, but it’s nice overall. That followed by a big titty vid is what finally got me off.”

Conclusion: All useful feedback!

How many times did you cum?

  • (10 responses) Just right!
  • (4 responses) Not enough!
  • One person wrote, “Once in the bathroom! I think I can only cum in front of others if I’m getting blown lol”

Did you interact with other attendees? (check ALL that apply)

  • (10 responses) Talked
  • (10 responses) Wish I had done more!
  • (9 responses) Hand stuff
  • (8 responses) Oral
  • (2 responses) Frot (rubbing cocks together)
  • (2 responses) Ass play
  • (1 responses) Sensual touching
  • (1 responses) Exchanged contact info

Looks like people had a lot of good interactions … mostly talking, hand stuff, and oral. A ton of people selected “I wish I had done more”. Let me remind people: Don’t be shy! Ask ask ask!

Anything else you’d like to TELL THE HOST?

  • “It was my first time at such an event, had a great time. Wanted to cum over and over!!”
  • “Glad I came (lol) definitely looking forward to the next one”
  • “Can’t wait for the next one!!”"
  • “It was a fun party, thanks for hosting!!”
  • “We need a circle jerk! :-)”
  • “Keep up the good work”
  • “You rock.”

Where did you hear about the party?

  • (9 responses) Discord
  • (3 responses) Reddit
  • (3 responses) FetLife
  • (1 responses) BateWorld

Where are you from?

The split was about 1/3rd New Jersey and 2/3rds NY.

Orientation

  • (10 responses) bi
  • (3 responses) bi curious
  • (2 responses) straight but bi curious
  • (1 responses) gay

Age

  • (5 responses) 20’s
  • (5 responses) 30’s
  • (1 responses) 40’s
  • (5 responses) 50’s

Conclusion

People have more fun at the parties when they say what they want.


Thanks

This party wouldn’t haven’t happened without the help of others!

Thanks to the people that arrived early and helped set up!

Thanks to the people that stayed late and cleaned up!

Thanks to everyone that completed the survey. Whether you attended or not, your answers really help make future parties even better!

Thanks to the first timers that got the courage to attend.

Thanks to everyone that played, and to those who were shy this time.

Thanks to the repeat attendees. We must be doing something right if people keep coming back!

And lastly, thanks to everyone that attended! These parties are all about you!

Hope to see you at a future party!