Party Recap: NYC, Oct 4, 2019 (at last!)
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Best and biggest party yet! 20+ guys attended.
This was also the gayest party so far. Nearly everyone that arrived took a green wristband and it showed: guys came to play! There was a ton of mutual stroking and (drumroll please….) the first oral at any of my parties! (Oh, and a lot of oral!) Speaking of firsts, this was also the first party with a male/female couple.
Thank you to everyone that showed up! I hope you all had a great time! I know I enjoyed it!
Special shout-out to the guy that came early to help set up, the guys that stayed late to help clean up, and to everyone that made it to the event!
To all the guys that RSVPed and didn’t show up… no harm, no foul! I hope to see you at the next party!
The Scene
Like last time we had a room at an upscale hotel near Herald Square. One king-sized bed, a 2-person couch, 2 chairs. It didn’t feel cramped with 6 guys. When there was 12 in the room it felt a bit cramped. However I think it brought everyone together. One more person and it would have been uncomfortable.
What’s new?
A few things were new this time:
15 hours! The party was 10am to 1am that night. 15 hours. This made it more of an “open house”: People could stop by when they wanted. Stay for a little while or multiple hours. Most stayed 3-4 hours.
Daylight! This was the first party I’ve hosted that wasn’t at night. I get a lot of feedback from guys that can only get away during the day. In hindsight it’s obvious. Anyone can sneak away during the day (“going to the gym, honey!”) but disappearing at night is a much more difficult thing if you are on the D/L. The problem is that hotels usually don’t permit check-in until 3pm. In this case I had to book the hotel for 2 nights; Friday night was just to guarantee that I’d have the room on Saturday morning. If I do this again, I’ll need to find a hotel that permits earlier check-in. This doubled the cost of the event.
Theme: This time I advertised the theme was “Porn for str8 and bi-curious guys (mutual and oral are permitted)”. This was the first time I mentioned oral in the announcement and it brought a lot of guys to the party. Who knew that so many people love blowjobs?!
Sissy Hour: I love sissy hypno and wanted to see if other guys did too. I included this in the adverts and amazingly enough, it got a huge response:
SPECIAL EVENT: Do you secretly crave being a sissy? Do you like
sissy hypno? Bimbo hypno? Let us know, were thinking of setting
up a special time for sissy training for the curious AND the
men that like them. Contact the host for details.
The result: A lot of sissies and fans of sissy hypno vids came out of the woodwork to ask about the party. Many showed up, as did guys that wanted to use a sissy. I feel like I’ve discovered something big.
Extra Privacy: I had tape to cover people’s phone/laptop cameras. It looked like this:
The Room Layout
This will be pretty familiar to anyone that read the last party report. The room configuration was very similar.
The room had a nice big bed, a couch big enough for two, and two chairs. Here’s some photos:
For privacy reasons there are no photos at the party. However I do try to take a lot of pictures before anyone shows up.
Imagine the above picture someone on the two chairs, two guys on the couch, and 4 people on the bed. Imagine one or two guys kneeling on the floor. That’s what it looked like.
…and porn! This is what the video wall looked like. Notice that there is an imagine on the ceiling too. (I have a portable projector.)
and more porn!
and more porn!
Here’s a video of the wall and ceiling: Video of video wall
One of the problems I’ve had in the past is finding the right place for the video DJ stuff (two laptops). Because of cable length it has to be near the video equipment; yet I want to sit on the bed. Using Google Chromecast helps eliminate some cables but it isn’t perfect.
This time I brought two 30 foot HDMI cables. This let me set up the DJ area far from the screens and projector. I set up a space on the bed for the laptops, and enough room that I could lay back and stroke. Most importantly the cables were arranged in a way that meant someone could lay down next to me! (Luckily the USB-C ports are on the appropriate side of my laptop or that person next to me would be poked with them!)
The 30 foot cables stretched from the front of the room, but were taped down for safety:
Arrival
When people arrived I welcomed them, gave them a quick tour and tried to make them feel comfortable. They usually took a moment to get adjusted but then found a seat and “got to work”.
Some people were very nervous, others jumped right in. As host, I go to great lengths to help people relax. For example the bathroom is right near the entrance, and having an opportunity to wash up also means a place to go, shut the door, and chill a bit before joining the party.
People were free to keep their clothes on, be naked, or somewhere in between. I think about half the people got naked.
As people arrive they’re also offered a colored wristband: Nearly everyone picked green (“yes!”) wristbands. I think there were only 2 yellow (“maybe!”) and 1 red (“no!”). I love the enthusiasm!
I added a new color this time. People had an option of getting a second wristband: a blue one to indicate they were a sissy.
The details
Since the party was 15 hours long I took some notes to help jog my memory but I’m sure I’m missing a lot. If I got any details wrong, please let me know and I’ll correct them!
9:30am: One person arrived early to help set up. He taped down the video cables so people wouldn’t trip over them (great handiwork, by the way), helped clean up the room a bit, etc. I’m grateful for his help!
10am: Stroking starts! Me and the early bird together. I stroked his balls (which were HUGE) and finally he started squirting. OMG he came buckets. This guy should be in porn.
10:50am: He left. I was alone. I decided to “test the video equipment” and play my favorite porn.
noon: More guys showed up. By 1pm there were 3 guys plus me. We were all on the bed stroking, and soon the mutual jo started. Hands on cocks, stroking each other.
2pm: There are now 7 people (including the host). Guys are black, brown, white… all stroking to porn ranging from big bimbo tits to gay gangbangs.
2:30pm: A self-described sissy and I are playing.
The sissy is stroking me and I’m stroking her boicock. I make her call me “daddy”, which she loved. Daddy is so proud of his little sissy cock slut. She asks to suck her first cock.
“You sure you want to suck cock, sissy?”
“Yes, Daddy!”
“You want your first time sucking cock to be while all these horny gooners watch you?”
“Yes, daddy.”
I slap my cock on her face and make her beg. Soon her lips are around my cock sucking. I coach her: More suction, wetter, slower, faster, etc. She’s so obedient. She followed all my instructions. I kept telling her how proud daddy is.
I’m edging in her mouth. I don’t want to cum just yet and finally pull out.
“Thank you, Daddy!”
There’s a big black cock waiting to be sucked next. I ask the sissy if she’s ready to suck her second cock. She nods.
I hold her head as she starts sucking her second cock. There are four guys watching as this sissy sucks the black cock in front of her.
“Good sissy! Make daddy proud!”
I inform her: if someone every asks if you’ve sucked a cock, you have to tell them, “No, but I’ve sucked two!”
3pm: The cuck couple arrives!
A week before the event I got a message from a male/female couple asking if couples could come to the party. She is a dominate switch, he is her submissive and would be looking to be humiliated in front of a group. We talked on the phone and they seemed legit.
I’d never had a woman RSVP to the party and I wasn’t sure what to do. I polled people on Discord and they were ok with it. This could be a big deal!
We talked more throughout the week. We got to know each other. We had a lot of fantasies in common and made plans to play together. They rented a room in the same hotel so they could change clothes in private and have a place to escape to when they needed a break. I was able to arrange with the hotel that their room would be on the same floor. It turns out they got the room adjacent to mine. Very convenient!
I was ecstatic when they arrived. Both were older (40s?) and very good looking. He was a tall guy, very masculine, but dressed in a sissy maid outfit. She was shorter, thin, toned, and dressed to impress in lingerie. He wore a collar and leash, which she controlled.
They jumped into the action right away. She got on the bed to watch as her cuck knelt on the floor and was surrounded by four guys, cocks out, about to make him stroke and suck all of them.
And then he came.
No, really. The cuck came. Like… nearly instantly.
Everyone was a bit surprised, including the Domme. She took him by leash and announced that she’s taking the cuck back to their room to be punished for cumming so fast.
And they left. I swear I think they were in the room for 5 minutes tops!
3:30pm: more arrivals
A very muscular pig arrived and joined 4 other guys by the couch. They started a circle jerk.
An older tattooed guy was doing a lot of coaching and encouragement: He got the guys to moan out loud about dongs as they gooned, etc. What an awesome coach! He got the guys that weren’t talking to talk, to talk dirty, to say “dong dong dong” as they stroked, stroked, stroked. It was super hot!
For a good 2-3 hours it seemed like he were leading a circle of guys though a massive goon session. I couldn’t see all the action (I was across the room) but I definitely saw people were having a great time!
One guy was into having people cum on him. I couldn’t see very well from across the room but as he was leaving (hours later) he told me 4 loads of cum landed on him. I couldn’t be happier to hear that!
4pm: The cuck couple returns
I assume the cuck took his punishment like a good sissy because soon the couple returned.
In my notes I wrote: “4pm. Sissy on his knees sucking and stroking 3 guys on the couch/chair. One guy on the bed next to me stroking. The Domme watching it all.”
Sadly I was preoccupied with a new project: fixing the internet. For some reason the videos were stalling. (We had internet problems about every 2 hours… but I’ll save you from the boring details. I don’t think it totally ruined the party, but it really killed the mood at times. I’m investigating how to fix this.)
4:25pm: More coaching
The guy I mentioned before that was coaching guys was in rare form now. He’s on the floor encouraging two guys, talking dirty to them, making them describe the porn on the screen and talk about their penis. One of the guys stands up and cums on the bush of the other guy.
4:30pm: 8 people total
Some people leave. Some arrive, shower, and join in. I’m really happy that this hotel has a nice bathroom. I think 3 or more people took showers either on arrival or before leaving. The wife will never know, eh?
5-6pm: seriously abusing the cuck
A lot was going on this hour. There were 9 people in the room. At the far end guys were mutual stroking each other.
On my end of the room was the cuck couple and me. I was pushing our little sissy maid. Putting her to the test. She was eagerly sucking Daddy’s cock as the Domme was verbally humiliating her. She (the cuck) was jerking her sissy cock the entire time. I don’t usually (ever?) cum from oral sex but this cuck was doing a great job. Plus, I was getting off on the fact that the rougher I got on her, the more enthusiastic she got.
I’d describe the blowjob as very wet and sloppy: possibly the wettest blowjob I’ve ever received. Good sissy maid!
6:10pm: More people arrive. Some leave.
10 people in the room!
The room is getting a bit full. 10 people means most of the bed, couch, and chairs are in use.
6:15pm: cuck couple needs a break
The cuck couple needs a break and goes back to their room.
One guy arrived and one guy left. Oddly enough, there was at least 3 times at the party where 1 guy arrived and 1 guy left at the same time. Weird.
6:30pm: Domme returns solo
“Where’s your cuck?” I asked. She explained that he’s taking a break but she wants to play.
She sits on the bed with her back against the headboard, plugs in a Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator, and starts buzzing herself as she watches all the guys watching porn, stroking, and playing.
She’s sitting in my usual spot (which I don’t mind) and I’m standing with my cock close to her as she vibes away.
She and I negotiate a bit. (consent is the number 1 rule at these parties, eh?) She agrees to let me dominate her; she also agrees to me fingering her cunt as she vibes herself.
I slowly worked a finger in her, holding it inside her wet cunt she held the Magic Wand. She was moaning and cumming over and over as I worked her gspot. Because of our position, gspot is being stimulated from the bottom with my finger and the vibrator from the top (resting on the cleft of her mons). It sounded like she was cumming over and over every 30 seconds.
I also dominated her. Telling her what a good sissy cuck she has trained, but that I control her now. She’s stroking my cock which is now rock hard.
I start slapping my cock on her face. Back and forth. Back and forth. She tries to stick her tongue out to lick it but I pull back.
“Do you want to suck my cock?”
“Yes, please”
“Well, we have a problem then. I only let dirty whores suck my cock. Are you a dirty whore?”
She looked up into my eyes with a look of desperation.
She nods.
“Hmmm? I can’t hear you! Are you a dirty whore?”
“Yes” she whispers, “Yes, I’m a dirty whore”
“Good girl”. I rub my cock head on her lips. She opens her mouth and starts sucking me.
I start working my finger in her faster. Soon I have two fingers in her and she’s rocking back and forth, moaning around my cock, as the vibrator sends her body into bliss.
“Are you cumming? Is my dirty whore cumming?” I ask
She nods as she can’t answer me with her mouth full of cock. Her cunt spasming on my fingers.
As she cums and cums I talk dirty to her, “Good slut! Cum for daddy!”
My cock has been in her mouth for a long time now, long before she started cumming and still once she’s calming down.
“Did you just cum with a cock in your mouth?”
She nods.
“What a slutty thing to do, huh? Cumming with a cock in your mouth!”
I still haven’t pulled out of her mouth. She melts and starts rubbing her clit again and she sucks me. I think she came one more time.
Daddy was so proud!
7pm: Sissy hypno hour!
A few more people arrived and left. The cuck returned. 11 people in the room.
I began the “Sissy Hypno Hour” with a brief introduction about hypno videos and a warning that it might change your life.
On the big screen I started playing hypno videos, starting with some simple pornosexual encouragement, then some sissy hypno, bi confusion, and more. Meanwhile on the other 3 screens I was playing a mix of hardcore and sissy videos. I wanted to make sure there was always some big tits, hard cocks/bi/gay videos, and group sex videos at any time. No matter what screen you looked at there was hardcore sex or hypno.
This lasted for more than an hour.
Guys were totally silent the entire time.
Like… everyone was quiet, staring at the screens, quietly stroking. Totally focused.
Some people had never seen this kind of video before and were fascinated by them. Others had seen them before and were horny to finally watch them with other guys.
(I’m curious how many guys changed their mind about sucking cock in that hour. I wish I had done a poll before and after to see if anyone was convinced!)
After sissy hypno hour 1 guy left, 2 arrived. 11 people in the room.
8-9pm: More arrivals
More guys showed up and played.
One guy showed up and was super nervous. He stroked for a bit but didn’t take any clothes off. He went to the bathroom and when he returned, he announced he had to go. Obviously he wasn’t feeling like he fit in. I’m super proud of him for showing up. I know that takes a lot of courage. Dude, if you are reading this, I hope you feel good about taking that big leap; and I hope to see you at a future party! I promise you it gets better!
9pm: 10 people total
The playing continued. A lot of people left around 10pm. It was getting late.
The cuck returned and stroked and sucked a bit more. Practice makes perfect! I asked where his Domme was. He told me she went out to another party in the city where she was going to fuck some guys she knows while he stays here and sucks cock. What a perfect couple!
11:30pm: Late arrivals!
Two guys txt’ed me asking if it was ok to show up so late. I warned them that things were winding down. They were visiting from out of town and were only a few blocks away so it was easy for them to stop by right away and join in.
The two new guys were both very tall, good looking, but seemed to look very straight to me. Boy was I wrong! They arrived, got their green wristbands, and dove in. Very soon one was sucking a guy and another was doing mutual.
I love that kind of enthusiasm!
11:40pm: Big cum!
Just when I thought things were winding down a really hot scene started up.
One guy was sucking another. It was hot and sloppy and everyone was watching. It ended with the sucker laying flat on the floor and the suckee standing over him, jerking off. Finally he came all over the guy on the floor.
It was super hot!
Midnight: Wrapping up
People started leaving midnight, with the last people leaving right at 1am.
End game
I was asleep by 1am. Totally satisfied.
I didn’t keep count but over the 15 hours at least 20 people showed up, probably more.
In the morning I packed up and I was home by noon!
I can’t believe how many towels we went through! A lot of people took showers, sat on towels, etc. The bathroom was kind of a mess as a result. (Yes, I left a big tip for the cleaning staff!)
Experience really pays off. I can now fit everything except the video monitors in one suitcase:
(The notepad is for my checklists. Believe it or not, I’m not very organized. However I keep lists of to-do items so that I stay focused. I think the reality is that nobody is organized… organized people just have checklists and coping mechanisms that let them fake it.)
Here’s the video monitors (2 fit in the travel case) plus the suitcase of cables, lube, clothes, and other stuff:
And more….
Even though I took a lot of notes, there’s a lot I missed. Obviously I didn’t take notes when I was playing. I also missed a lot of what was going on at the far end of the room. It looks like there was a pretty consistent group of guys gooning together, dongbating, and having a generally good time. (If the guys involved in that want to send me a description, I’d gladly add it to this blog post!)
My memory isn’t perfect and I didn’t take as many notes as I had hoped. Maybe at a future party I’ll have a better way to count the number of people that show up (maybe count wristbands?). Maybe I should recruit a person to just take notes?
Next time
Sadly the next party will not be for quite some time. I’m busy during the holidays. The next party might not be until February or May.
In the meanwhile, I encourage everyone to host their own parties! Or, just have some fun one-on-one time with guys you meet online. You don’t even have to host: attend other people’s parties: BateWorld.com and NYJacks announce new events all the time. Heck, NYJacks has two parties every week!
When I do announce the next party, I’ll announce it on BateWorld first, so be sure to subscribe to this BateWorld group
Of course, attendees (and future attendees) are encouraged to hang out in the Real Porn Meets Discord Chatrooms .