Update: Due to cancellations, invites are open again. In fact, we’re expecting a smaller party. If you were afraid of a big crowd, this is a good event to attend! RSVP now!




Our first NYC event is full! I’m super excited by all the enthusiam! Is it this month’s theme? The location? Or maybe one should never underestimate the number of guys that want to jo to porn together. Who knows?!

Whatever the reason, I’ve declared this event to be full and started a waiting list. Thank you to everyone that signed up. To everyone else, I hope you can attend next time!

If you RSVPed on or before Jan 11:

  • If you RSVP’d “yes”, you have a spot. If you can’t make it (even at the last minute) please change your RSVP to “no” so that someone from the waiting list can join.

  • If you RSVP’d “maybe”, you still have a spot. I’ve estimated that most of you would have become a “yes” closer to the event. That said, if you know for sure that you can or can’t make it, please change your answer to “yes” or “no” to help me manage the waiting list.

If you RSVP on Jan 12 or later:

  • I will consider this the waiting list (both “yes” and “maybe”). I’ll let you know if someone drops out.
  • Please change your response to “no” if you want to make room for someone else.

Why not get a bigger room?

If you recall, the #1 priority for these parties is safety and confidentiality. Small parties are more comfortable and safer. So, while I’d love to get a huge room and have dozens of guys, these parties are kept small.

Maybe in the future we’ll get a bigger space, especially if I had a cohost.